The two of you are both intellectual creatures, more rational than emotional, and you have a good mental rapport. You both love to talk and you appreciate one another's wit. Virgo, however, has a more practical, down-to-earth turn of mind, while Gemini just enjoys playing with ideas, without needing a purpose or practical application for them. Gemini is also more of a risk-taker and will gladly do something once
"just for the experience" while Virgo is more careful, cautious and discriminating. For the most part, however, you understand each other well, and can be quite compatible.
Both of you are very active and inclined to try to do too many things at once, scattering your forces and depleting yourselves through overwork or compulsive busy-ness. Gemini is mentally restless and needs the stimulation of new ideas, intellectual challenges, and a variety of people to interact with. Gemini is something of a social butterfly also. Virgo is more practical, down-to-earth, and conscientious. Modest and self-critical, Virgo is a hardworking perfectionist with a talent for working with details and organizing practical affairs. Also, Virgo is fastidious and particular about food and nutrition, health and hygiene, and having everything in its proper place, which can be difficult for Gemini to live with at times. Virgo is more disciplined than Gemini and more concerned with self-improvement.
Gemini is witty, humorous, and plays more easily than Virgo does. You both enjoy word games, or games that hone and test your knowledge or intellectual skill.
Both of you are deeply drawn to understand the mysterious workings of the universe, and you will probe into territory that others may feel is better left forgotten or out of sight. Virgo can become intensely preoccupied and obsessed with such things, while for Gemini, it is more a matter of satisfying curiosity.
Both of you, too, tend to form very strong opinions, but Virgo fixates on these ideas and can become coercive and manipulative in order to get others to believe the same way. Gemini could help Virgo be less fanatical, extreme, and one-sided in Virgo's points of view.
Your relationship is exciting, unpredictable, and stimulating. However, it tends to be explosive too, and there is the strong possibility that you will come together suddenly and unexpectedly, and will break up just as suddenly. If either of you is looking for a very stable, quiet, traditional, uneventful marriage with security, commitment, dependability, and predictability, then this is not the relationship for you! Together you will explore new possibilities and interests and break away from traditional, long-held beliefs and assumptions. Your sexual life, like other aspects of your lives, is exciting but not predictable and likely to vary from ecstatic to unsatisfying. You must be willing to be flexible and adaptable in all areas of life. Be wary, also, of letting your love for freedom and independence become a euphemism for being neglectful and inconsiderate of each other.
With sexual expression, you are both direct and forceful and you both put a lot of energy into what you say and do. You can both express your love with great conviction. Multiple orgasms can be achieved, sex comes quite naturally to the both of you. Experimentation in sex will certainly elevate any inhibition you may initially have. The farther-out variations the better. Oils, videos, and sex toys may appeal to you both. Intimate touching is important to both of you.
Without a doubt, the two of you rouse strong energies within one another, and you will have to learn how to manage conflict, passion, and anger in a creative way. When you are together, you both tend to become competitive, overly eager, rambunctious, zealous. You are not destined to have a peaceful, placid coexistence! However, you can initiate new projects and get lots of work done together, if your drives are harnessed and channelled into creative enterprises. Winning at work and competition, developing a warrior spirit, encouraging one another to be bolder and more courageous - these are the positives you will discover and create together if you can diffuse the more aggressive, abrasive energies you bring out in each other.